Due to a harddrive crash I finally had some time to reinstall and this time I went with XFCE instead of Gnome.
What a relief and a breath of fresh air!
For the moment I think that XFCE is a good middle ground between resource efficiency and "lightness" and the ability to tinker with it, while at the same time getting all the built in goodness of all buttons working and being able to connect to a projector without any trouble at all.
Unless I discover some fundamental incompatibility (...)
XFCE is the only WM for me. Been using it for years now. Simple, just works, no BS.
@TylerAbeoJordan etc.
So, so far, happy with XFCE as a happy middle ground. =)